Many parents do not allow themselves to think that their child could be the victim of violence from their peers. It’s no wonder they feel this way, because the symptoms are sometimes hard to notice, and although there are obvious symptoms, such as physical injuries, most of them are more subtle. Once we are convinced that something is not right, it is important to intervene without doing the child an even greater harm. That's why it's so important to have the first conversations about this subject the right way.
Talking to a child who has been the victim of violence is always difficult. You will find yourself wondering how you control the fear of such a conversation or which questions you should ask and which you should not? This article will give you the necessary guidance and help to prepare you for this difficult conversation.
Just like adults, children should be prepared for situations where peer aggression takes place. By working on the assertiveness of your child, you will equip them with a great tool for dealing with situations involving conflict.
Violence against a child is a problem that indirectly affects entire families. It is not difficult to imagine what emotions parents are tormented by when they find out that their child was the victim of bullying. It is important to try to deal with this problem within the family while making sure to not forget about the child and their needs.
Assertiveness is a skill that can be practiced. We have prepared a series of examples from which you will learn how to wisely guide a child to correctly react to potentially dangerous situations.
When planning a conversation with a child, it is easy to mistakenly misunderstand the child’s intent or needs in order to reach closure on the issue. In this short worksheet we will show you how to behave before, during and after the conversation so as to avoid this possible confusion.